A New Year

‘I’d rather look back at my life and say ‘I can’t believe I did that’ instead of saying ‘I wish I’d done that’

One of my goals for last year was to start doing things that scared me. I experienced the loss of someone very close to me and I decided that life is too short, and that you should say yes to things that might scare you initially, because sometimes those things end up being the most rewarding. Last year seemed to be a year of new beginnings, a new degree, a few new jobs. I was faced with lots of opportunities, some I was excited for and others scared me. 

Taking up the role as president of Women in Work was one of those things that I was terrified of. I was scared of failing of not being able to handle it. I doubted my ability. But I took that leap, the impact Women in Work had on my life when I attended one of the conferences was amazing. I remember coming away in tears, feeling inspired and encouraged at a time when emotionally I felt like I was failing. And so when I was considering taking up a role in Women in Work I thought about this, about how positively it impacted me and that perhaps all the hard work would be worth it and help many others.

And so that is why I will be continuing on with the goal of saying yes to things that scare me, I want to be able to look back at my life and look at the long list of accomplishments no matter how big or small. Women in Work continues to excite me and push me. Find something that you are passionate about even if it scares you. 

If you are feeling disheartened by a difficult year, difficult month, week or day that’s okay but turn it around with some positive thinking and reflection. Remind yourself that no matter where you are in your journey you are doing amazing.

Here are some quotes to start the new year with, write one down for a day when you may need some encouragement.

•  Your only limit Is your mind
•  Strive for progress not perfection.
•  When you focus on the good, the good gets better.
•  Trust the timing of your life.
• You can waste your life drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them. 

d    And finally, a reminder that we are holding our first book club on the Wednesday 29^th January 6-8pm in the Swan on campus. To start the year we are going to be talking about Shonda Rhimes, Year of Yes: How to do Dance it out, Stand in the Sun and Be Your own person.  

Start your year with some affirmations and positivity! Its a new year, a new decade and a chance for new opportunities, grab them and run with them.

Elena Cossar.